Now,

the topic may make you wonder, that how contradicting and conflicting is this one with my earlier post.

But mind you, the circumstances that force us to do this, are also totally opposite.

What here I desire to stress upon is when is it actually time to take the bold decision of,

“Putting your friendship at stake.”

And before I forge ahead, people will be up in arms against me to argue that, there is something called ‘Personal Space.’

Then let me enlighten you, that there is no such word between true friends and plus the circumstances that force you to take the plunge is very not personal, coz after all you belong to that PERSONAL circle.

How many of your friends are addicted to,

Smoking

Drinking

mayb drugs

or something else…

and according to you how much is too much.

Just coz I don’t do or believe in something doesn’t mean that I am right and you are wrong.

That’s why I never stop them for trying something, but you need to stop them from living with that something.

So, the issue that crops us is that when is it high time to ask them to call it quits.

The problem here is, that this could cause a fall out even among the best of friends, as they call it a way of life and find you as an intrusion.

That’s when I believe, take the decision.

Go beyond normal limits, cross all boundaries, but make sure he/she gets rid of the habit.

By this I mean, do whatever is needed, break their trust, shatter their comfort zone, WHATEVER.

Yes, you may lose your friendship, but then at least your friend will be happy and kicking.

And somewhere down the line, seeing him laugh will bring a tear in your eyes (with a smile on your face) and this will be better than the waterdroplets coming out when you see him battling between life and death at the hospital, just coz you couldn’t muster up the courage to take corrective action.

And if you think, the friendship is more important than be ready to lose your friend.

Now,

its upto you to decide, what’s important,

“The relationship or the person who completes the relationship.”

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