Well…dis title has got two aspects to it…
One dat u lose contact wid him/her…
(oder 2 b covered in mah nxt blogpost…)
nd den der r many reasons for dat,
dnt u thnk so???
nd d most common reason (wich v’ll shall vouch to disagree wid) is
…
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EGO…
i personally dnt contact SOME of my frnds coz of dis 3-letter word,
its jus dat v lost tch due to some reason…mayb sm fyt…or probably jus a misunderstanding…
nd den v go lyk…
y shld i approach him/her…i dnt need him/her…if dey need me den dey will call me…
but i dnt thnk v r rong always in takin up dis approach…
well basically dis decides hw mch d oder person meant to us…
v rememba dem every oder day but yet dnt wanna dial der number…
nd den wid tym v tend 2 live widout dem…though neva 4get dem…
one reason dat I can defend dis action is dat,
u dnt do dis wid every frnd of urz…its lyk 1 outta 10…wen u thnk dat ENOUGH IS ENOUGH…
argument accepted…but dis does nt work wid all…
nd if u try d apply to all principle den either u hav very few frnds for lyf…nd worse u dnt deserve to be called a frnd…
oder reason for d seperation (not on long term basis thx 2 technology)
is
distance
it generally tends 2 reduce our interaction wid d oder person…
but dat distance actually bridges d gap b/w the two of u weneva u meet up nxt nd datz d best part abt it…)but subject to dat u havnt been totally out of sight for a long duration of tym…)
den der cld b
clashing schedules
new frnd circles
change in career paths
whtever d reason mayb…
its U who r at fault ALWAYS…
coz relationship needs to be valued over nd above ne oder damn thng atleast in 99% of d cases…
excuses r totally unacceptable…
coz @ d end of d day…frnds r lyk n xtension of urself…
so go ring up dat ur frnd of urz 2day…:)
or better jus send dem a link to dis post…nd dey will get d message…wht say???

hmmm……….lolz……….i c………
nw wht waz su funny in dis???:S
i liked what u have wriiten nd evry1 of us goes through this in some or the other way…
EGO-kills nd weakens relations!!!
DISTANCE-doesnt affect but to bridge it u havta have undersatndinn n do things to make ur frnds feel u r still dr n make em feel special !!!