Well…dis title has got two aspects to it…

One dat u lose contact wid him/her…

(oder 2 b covered in mah nxt blogpost…)

nd den der r many reasons for dat,

dnt u thnk so???

nd d most common reason (wich v’ll shall vouch to disagree wid) is

..

.

EGO…

i personally dnt contact SOME of my frnds coz of dis 3-letter word,

its jus dat v lost tch due to some reason…mayb sm fyt…or probably jus a misunderstanding…

nd den v go lyk…

y shld i approach him/her…i dnt need him/her…if dey need me den dey will call me…

but i dnt thnk v r rong always in takin up dis approach…

well basically dis decides hw mch d oder person meant to us…

v rememba dem every oder day but yet dnt wanna dial der number…

nd den wid tym v tend 2 live widout dem…though neva 4get dem…

one reason dat I can defend dis action is dat,

u dnt do dis wid every frnd of urz…its lyk  1 outta 10…wen u thnk dat ENOUGH IS ENOUGH…

argument accepted…but dis does nt work wid all…

nd if u try d apply to all principle den either u hav very few frnds for lyf…nd worse u dnt deserve to be called a frnd…

oder reason for d seperation (not on long term basis thx 2 technology)

is

distance

it generally tends 2 reduce our interaction wid d oder person…

but dat distance actually bridges d gap b/w the two of u weneva u meet up nxt nd datz d best part abt it…)but subject to dat u havnt been totally out of sight for a long duration of tym…)

den der cld b

clashing schedules

new frnd circles

change in career paths

whtever d reason mayb…

its U who r at fault ALWAYS…

coz relationship needs to be valued over nd above ne oder damn thng atleast in 99% of d cases…

excuses r totally unacceptable…

coz @ d end of d day…frnds r lyk n xtension of urself…

so go ring up dat ur frnd of urz 2day…:)

or better jus send dem a link to dis post…nd dey will get d message…wht say??? :D

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