45 aspects of lyf…

dis isn’t just anoda 4warded mail….

READ ALL…u will relate to most of em…

 

1. Life isn’t fair, but  it’s still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small  step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your  job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will.  Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You  don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with  someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.

8. It’s OK to get angry  with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your  first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is  futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the  present.

12. It’s OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don’t  compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all  about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in  it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry;  God never blinks.

16.. Take a deep breath. It calms the  mind..

17. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or  joyful.

18. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you  stronger.

19.. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the  second one is up to you and no one else

20. When it comes to going  after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.

21. Burn the  candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a  special 
occasion. Today is  special. 

22. Over  prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for  old age to wear purple.

24. The most important sex organ is the  brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26.  Frame every so-called disaster with these words ‘In five years, will this  matter?’

27. Always choose life. 

28. Forgive everyone  everything.

29. What other people think of you is none of your  business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31.  However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don’t take  yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in  miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of  anything you did or didn’t do.

35. Don’t audit life. Show up and make  the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying  young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that  truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day.  Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a  pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste  of time. You already have all you need.

42.. The best is yet to  come…

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show  up.

44. Yield. 

45. Life isn’t tied with a  bow, but it’s still a gift.” 
                          
 Friends are  the family that we choose for ourselves

 

okk..dis is d 1st post in d blog i havnt written..buh i guess u deserve 2 read em…

A new start…

“Hamare share prices all time low par hain

sare naye brands flop ho chuke hain

upar se 572 claims

in other words

hamari haalat bahut kharaab hain boss

sadi toh band baj chuki hain

ISSE BURA AUR KUCH HO HI NAHIN SAKTA

AB SIRF ACHA HO SAKTA HAIN AUR HOGA

insaan jo kuch really chahta hain naa

…actually…

use hamesha wohi milta hain”

Remember this dialogue???

Yes, indeed its from Jab We Met!!!

Jus read it all over once again…

I guess its self explanatory of what I am trying to say…

isn’t it??

So after the lowest phase, lyf will always bounce back…

thngs will always improve.

Life can never b d same all ova again…

Life is not just about being low…

der r always rebounds towards a high…

maybe today..tomorrow…but sm day 4 sure…

Happy Refreshing of Life!!!

Exam Fever…

Well, yes its the exam time again….with many more people around me appearing for the grand finale of school exams….Boards…

 

Does it deserve the importance…or it is just hyped up….

frankly i am clueless…even after appearing for boards twice (10th & 12th b4 ne1 thngs dat i flunked)

but den I used 2 njoiii d period a bit…studyin was neva as much fun as during boards…though d tension was never less…

with parents, teachers, relatives focusing on us, stating as if boards is d next world war….and then friends trying 2 find an xcuse for some casual tp on d xcuse of asking a doubt…etc…

 

indeed a lot of pressure does come from within…and then forgetting whtever v had studies an hour after closing the book….going blank at times….sleepless nights etc…

 

but at the end the best last month in skewl (4 12th graders)….and an unforgettable everlasting/never ending month….coz CBSE exams have so many holidays tht u jus wish dey wer neva der…

 

All the Best to all appearing 4 ne xams.

Do well.. put in your best & leave the rest on ur luck…

Note: We never stop giving exams in our lives.

Slumdog Millionaire…

A must watch movie for every person, whether an Indian or not.

Its nothing specific about India. Its just about a paricular segment of India,and then they have hardly shown the life of slums, surely not the way certain people have actually over-reacted, that it depicts India in the wrong sense.

Why can’t they see the positive side of it?

Its about childhood love, simplicity of kids, and lots more to learn about.

In the movie for the sake of his love, Jamal does whatever is necessary, and at the end he does succeed, he does win his love Latika.

Life is the same, if you strive for something, that something(could be someone also) can’t be forbidden to you for long.

And then it has given hopes to Indians for an Oscar, the most prestigious award for cinematic excellence.

Well even the movie is about hope, isn’t it? Hope to get rid of the poverty to lead a decent life.

Jai Ho!!!

Finding Someone…in Someone Else…

How many times do we miss someone like crazy in life?

Your ex from a very recent relationship or maybe from your first.

Your best buddy who is miles away from you.

And then equally often we try to find them in someone else around us in our daily life, who has gradually become really close to us in our life. And then we expect them to react and respond in the same way as the former, though they are totally unaware of our look out.

How many times has our such attitude led to rifts in our friendships/relationships?

And what is more frustrating for the other person, is our continous comparison of them with the former, with statements like, ‘If he/she was there, then he/she would have done this.’, and blaah.

 

What we fail to realise is that no two persons are the same, though they may have many similarities in common.

But how often to we realise the awkward position we put the others in by comparing them.

 

Are we at fault? Or is it just the common human mentality?

Taking friends for granted…

Many times we have to decide upon several things in life. One of the most common and probably even being important is taking things for granted.

We assume and pressume many things in life, and basically there’s nothing wrong in it.

And then comes taking our loved one’s for granted. So what’s wrong?

If you can’t take your friendship for granted and assume that they need to bear your grunt in anger, then they surely also do not deserve to laugh with you in good times.

Basically what’s wrong if we vent out something’s to our friends, totally unintentionally because of some matter creating a block head in our mind and which also stops our thinking process.

Isn’t it basically our right to take our friends for granted?

After all if these best buddies won’t understand us, then who will?

If they don’t stand by us at such crucial intervals which keep repeating after every short time, then whom can we rely upon?

Teenage attraction…

Very often or basically the most commonly used word, ‘infatuatuon’

A new Bollywood movie has come up with the tagline

‘Teenage attraction is not love.’

The question here arises is what sort of attraction? How long can you be drawn behind the person just for looks?

At some point of time you surely will realise the difference between attraction and love. Then why is the common belief that a teenager cannot fall in love?

Or is the tagline appropriate in these times when majority teenage relationships don’t last for more than a few months at the most?

Show the Inclination…

Unless and untill you show inclination and interest towards a things, subject or in this matter even a person, that thing, subject or person will not react.

 

Theoretically I learnt this just today, but on the practical frontier, this can be experienced or actually has been experienced many times in our lives itself.

 

For instance, if you have a crush on someone, then unless and untill you show some inclination towards being friends with that person, no matter what that person will not show any interest in you.

Equally common example. Still the time we don’t show our interest towards a particular topic, the essence of the topic will never settle down in our head, it will keep popping out.

 

Moral of the story, if you want to achieve something, move towards it, the result has to be in your favour. Today or tomorrow the success has to be yours.

I am waiting to hear, if this theory has ever been proved wrong.

Are love marriages and mental growth related?

(This is strictly not my point of view but has actually forced me to think how true is it.)

I will explain it with an example to explain that person’s point of view.

Anuj and Chandni studied together in college for 5years and have been dating since 5years (including 3 years in college). They are of the same age and their mental growth is same over the years. They enjoy each other’s company to the fullest and understand each other really well.

They decide to get married.  He works and she decided to be a housewife. Alls going well.

After 10years their is a slight shift in the relationship.

The mental growth of Chandni is limited as she stays confined within the four walls, while Anuj has reached higher levels of mental growth.

Fights begun over petty issues as Anuj takes things for granted while Chandni does not and the marriage fails.

So, basically is it true that love marriages fail MAINLY because of mental imbalalance between the boy and the girl.

I am somehow not convinced with the theory.

Behind the Mask…

There are so many new faces we meet daily in our lives.

We meet some of them almost daily, some once in a blue moon, and the rest once in a lifetime.

There are some whom we call our closest, and some with whom we love to spend time with, hang out with.

Basically a common word for all the above would be Friends.

A particular set of friends bother about our well being, and we know that whatever they say is for our good.

But have we realised that some people in those whom we meet once in a fortnight could be the one who know us as good as we know oursleves. Somewhere they do care for us.

We just don’t realise that, possible because we are too busy to realise the reality.

Its just some hints like say an SMS, not on your birthday and not even on New Year, but when they feel that you are just not safe.(Like some people messaging me during the Mumbai terrorist attacks)

I remember one of my friends saying this after classes, (when most of us were happy that we finally have a leave the next day)

“I don’t want holidays. I will not meet you people tomorrow.”

It had so much warmth and affection attahached to it.

Just because we are busy with people we enjoy being with, we stay in the dreamworld far away from reality.

Only if we are lucky, we would catch hold of those sms’s or line’s that come directly from their heart.